A Stanford-born community on aging, family and technology

“I'm fine, don't worry.”How would you know?

Millions of adults care for parents who live hours, or an ocean, away. We bring together researchers, builders and families working on one question: how do we notice when someone we love starts to drift, early enough to help, without making them feel watched?

A full room of attendees at the Care at a Distance event at Stanford, October 10

Many of us are caring across time zones

Right now —

When the weekly call ends here, their day is just starting there. Most of what happens in between, we never see.

The problem

Phone calls catch crises. They miss the slow drift that comes first.

63M

Americans are family caregivers

~6M

live an hour or more away, not counting parents overseas

1 in 2

report financial strain from caregiving

45%

of caregivers over 50 use or want AI health monitoring; only 13% use it today

Sources: AARP & National Alliance for Caregiving, Caregiving in the US 2025; AARP 2026 Tech Trends.

Our work so far

Research, fieldwork, community and gatherings.

Seven life-domain trajectories across ages 55 to 85+, from The Actionable Decade practicum

MCiM practicum · Research

The Actionable Decade

Analyzing seven life domains to identify the 55–74 window for earlier support, using the U.S. Health and Retirement Study.

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All’s Well: passive eldercare intelligence for remote families, the Botha-Chan fellowship pitch deck cover

Fellowship · Pitch deck

Botha-Chan Innovation Fellowship

All’s Well: a pitch developed out of the fellowship, exploring phone signals as a source of reassurance and connection for remote families.

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Caring Across the Miles, the title slide of our Avenidas community talk

Avenidas · Community talk

Caring Across the Miles at Avenidas

A community talk in Palo Alto on the long-distance caregiving landscape — and how care flows in both directions.

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Care at a Distance opening slide from SF Tech Week at Stanford

SF Tech Week · Community gathering

Care at a Distance at Stanford

Our community's first gathering: two panels and a short talk on AI, sensors, robotics and the future of aging, October 10, 2026.

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What we believe

Connection before monitoring

Data should give families more to talk about, not a reason to talk less.

Compare people to themselves

The meaningful signal is change from a person's own baseline, not the population average.

Reassurance without surveillance

Older adults decide what is shared. If a parent feels watched, the system has lost the trust it depends on.

Three ways in: Learn with us, Build with us, Test with us.

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